One Lucky Ducky

A long time ago two "friends" I trusted tried to send me away far into the hills of Tennessee for the love I had found. They told me that by choosing to be in this relationship God would put his hand up and "block " my "blessings". Every time I have an extra challenging day or a string of bad luck I remember what they said and I can do nothing but laugh. Younger and more naive I was actually concerned about their warning. Today, having gained some wisdom I realize that life happens. Every person has ups and downs in their lifetime. God does not Block your blessings for falling head over heels for a transsexual. I really am so very blessed to have found the perfect love. I have been blessed with a wonderful family and good health. I have been blessed to see the world and meet many special people I've shared unforgettable experiences with. While many have doubted the success of our partnership I am so proud of us. I'm proud of the fact that we are still going strong, learning, loving and encouraging one another to be the best we can be, always striving to be more. What seems funny to me is that along our journey we have encountered many who could do nothing but throw obstacles in our way, many of these same people are since divorced or struggling in damaged relationships.
I was talking to someone today and the more I was talking to her about her personal struggles the more I realized just how incredibly lucky I am. While many may find our situation strange and weird I find that we are somehow one of the strongest, most functional couples I know. We are first loves and as far as I am concerned this is my one and only love. When you completely trust the other person to always be there for you no matter what, you feel safe enough to be yourself and love wholeheartedly.
Love is easy. Being a good partner takes some practice. We've definitely had to help each other learn how to live in love. Life may get you down, it may be crazy or become mundane but learning to work together is an amazing accomplishment. One you can never trade in. If only I had the opportunity to go to that fat lesbian camp today I would run there barefoot to share all that I've learned. Wow what a difference my outlook on things are today, far from the shameful whispers of my past.